The Truth About Sex

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By
The Man Who Saw God Face To Face
Raphael Okechukwu Nweze

1. Sex is good and pleasant. There is the simple truth, naturally and spiritually.
   


2. All varieties of life are produced by the interaction of one thing and another. Likewise, the interaction of a man and a woman produces a child.
   


3. The man is important. The woman is also important. One major difference between man and woman is that the man is the head of the woman, just as every group of people must have a leader and follower(s).
   


4. The feeling, idea or stigma that sex is bad and evil was caused by three sets of people.
   • One group were the priests, who were not spiritually awake, enlightened and experienced.
   • The second group were the parents or adults, who created bad impressions of sex in the hearts and mind of the youths, in order to control the youths and children. They wanted to discourage sex outside marriage and teenage pregnancy. The intention is good, but the approach is bad. How can the adults turn round to condemn sex when they enjoy it from time to time?
   • The third group were the society, because people were interfering in the private affairs and lives of others, by gossiping, backbiting, jealousy, greed and ignorance. These unwanted and unwarranted social evils have created more harm than good. It has led to so many cases of abortion because both parents and youngsters tried to cover pre-mature sex and teenage pregnancy.


5. In spirit, sex is considered, seen as, one of the pleasures of life. For example, the female’s breast is seen in spirit as ‘bubbles of honey’ or ‘apples of pleasure,’ and not as something bad, sin or evil. It was made by a perfect and holy God.
   


6. The idea or belief that celibacy amounts to holiness is not true.
   


7. Celibacy was introduced because of three major reasons.
   • One, priests who were not spiritually awake, enlightened and experienced thought that sex was evil. Therefore, they decided at meetings, councils and synods, to preach against sex.
   • Another reason was that the church needed able young men who were ready to render services whenever and wherever the church leaders wanted. A man who is not married became the preferred choice, since such a man has no children or wife to worry about.
   • The third reason was that the idea came from the anti-Christ. The anti-Christ knows that blood is life, and that as long as priests bear children, God would have a steady set of soldiers - bright, glorious and powerful spiritual beings - trampling on the kingdom of darkness. By convincing the priests to condemn sex and practice celibacy, the anti-Christ cut off the natural supply and transmission of spiritual powers from one generation to another. By so doing, every generation has to start all over to build spiritual powers, which are disjointed and random, instead of successive generations building up accumulated spiritual powers over many years, which power will be so enormous that the evil spirits can not withstand it. Out of spiritual blindness (ignorance), humanity followed the dictates of the evil one.


8. Marriage or no marriage does not make somebody holy.
   


9. Holiness comes from God. If the Holy Spirit is in you, you become holy. And if the Holy Spirit is not in you, you are not holy.
   


10. Laws of holiness were given to humanity in order to ensure cleanliness, because cleanliness is next to Godliness. A clean environment does not necessarily mean a holy environment. However, the Holy Spirit wants us to maintain cleanliness, so that the spirit of holiness will be in us and around us.
    


11. The practice of marring one wife was not the custom and tradition of the original church. The idea was introduced by Romans. A survey of the Holy Scriptures, from Genesis to Revelation, shows that the holy men of God married more than one wife. For example,
    • Moses married two wives.
    • Abraham married three wives.
    • Jacob had four wives.
    • David had seven wives.
    • Solomon had seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines.


12. As humanity have entered the End Time, marring more than one wife is no longer advisable. The more wives a person has, the more children he gets. Many wives and multiple children bring so many responsibilities of what to eat, how to pay school fees, how to provide health and medical care, in addition to family crisis and social unrest. All these cares and worries of life, hinder people from spiritual growth and wellbeing. A human being needs less time and attention on the things of the world, in order to pay more time and attention to the things of the spirit.
    


13. Every form of sexual immorality remains sin, both here on earth and in heaven. Such evil practices include: indecent dressing, fornication, adultery, phonography, sexy music and dance, etc.
    


14. This spiritual and natural law of life remains both valid and compulsory: do not take what belongs to another person.
    


15. For those who are duly married, their children are pure and holy before the throne of God.
    


16. Married men and women, who observe the laws of holiness, are also pure and holy before God.
    


17. Virginity ends with first child birth of a woman. Hence, the belief and teaching of virgin birth is not true. Again, it is misleading, and is an indirect way of saying that what God created is evil.
    


18. A woman who has given birth is no longer a virgin.
    


19. Loss of virginity is not a sin, provided that a woman is dully married. If the loss of virginity were evil, then every child is a product of sin and evil. This is not true.
    


20. If sex or marriage were evil, then the reverend ministers who are not married should not climb the altar to worship God, because they should have been products of evil.
    


21. To leave one’s partner and to engage in sexual immorality is not only bad, but also, pulls down the doer on the spiritual ladder. One act alone, nearly destroyed the life and kingdom of David. Samson suffered greatly because of the simple reason that he married a woman that was not his wife.
    


22. Beware of those who teach that chastity does not mean having sex outside marriage. Many teach ‘what they think’. But the person, who has seen the Truth, knows and teaches what is true.
    


23. Leave alone every family in which a man is already married to more than one wife. Do not separate them, for you cause more harm and trouble by so doing. Again, you cause and spread sexual immorality by separating them.
    


24. The teachings of Jesus Christ on marriage and divorce are true. It is disappointing that many are violating those teachings without minding the consequences.